I have stopped pair trading completely and embarked on
swing trading before the trade war started. Again. Picked up my Jedi stick to train my psychology and temperament with a "never say die" attitude this time round. (So let me take back my previous conclusion in one of my posts...)
To sum it up, it is not easy at all to beat the market as a trader. Despite missing the early rally in the first quarter of 2019, I count myself lucky to have caught some late rallies before they fade away like the rainbow. My "heroes" were Walt Disney and Monster Beverages. Pocketed some neat profits riding their uptrend and later got whipped out by the trailing stop during the price rally's pull-back. Setting
Stop Loss is an art more than science. Trail too close and you would risk getting stopped out unwittingly, trail too far away and you would risk not locking in as much profits as you could have.
This time, trading with a different psychology and approach, I ditched my "sure win" conviction when initiating positions and "played safe" by analyzing the risk-reward, set trailing stop losses
(when you take care of the downside, the upside will take care of itself), and minimizing the use of CFD (as leverage can make one take on a bigger position than one's risk appetite allows).
I find that trading is an activity that allows self-discovery. Alot of inner demons (greed, fear, anxiety...) will get reviewed and if you spend enough time reflecting you might find the way to deal with them.
Despite all that work,
I might have been better off just buying the S&P500 ETF or any big cap stocks since January and hold them all the way (less effort!).