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独自旅行


在人生中偶尔要体会一下独自旅行。



独自旅行不一定要出国,也不一定要去游走。它可以是一个心灵上的旅行。当然如果是实际性地出国旅行,也可以是一种心灵上的旅行体验。



独自旅行是一个强化心智的过程。通过独自旅行,我们能够学会不依赖别人,学会自己做决定,自己为自己的选择负责,并找寻适合自己的道路。独自的好处在于不被别人所支配或束缚 - 旅途中要跑,要走,要停留,要摸索都行。自己能享受属于自己的自由。



独自旅行的途中我们会遇到同道之人,帮助我们的人或情同陌路的过客。也有可能遇到想某害我们,利用我们或骗我们的人。无法辨识的人既可以对所遇到的人和事都视若无睹,可那不就浪费了此行的意义。人来人往,缘聚缘散,也不需要太执着。



独自旅行并非孤立自己 - 而是让自己走出自己的狭小舒适范围, 从而增长智慧,了解自己,了解更广阔的天地和人事物。



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  1. I walk alone since I have no idea where it ends and where it will begin.

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    1. Hi Uncle8888,

      Often it ends at where it began.

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